PART 1: 15 MIN NO SPOKEN LANGUAGE
AFTER I PICKED UP MY SON FROM SCHOOL I JUST SMILED AT HIM AS HER RAN UP TO ME AS USUAL AND HUGGED MY LEGS. HE SAID MOMMY I'M SLEEPY AND LIFTED HIS ARMS I JUST NODDED MY HEAD AND PICKED HIM UP AND CARRIED HIS HEAVY BUTT TO THE CAR. WE DROVE HOME AND HE SAID THIRSTY MOMMA! I POINTED TO THE FRIDGE IN THE GARAGE AND HE OPENED IT AND GRABBED A CAPRI-SUN, HE COULDN'T GET THE STRAW IN SO HE SAID HELP MOMMA I NODDED AND PUT THE STRAW IN FOR HIM. I WONDERED TO MYSELF THIS BOY HASN'T HEARD MY VOICE YET AND DOESN'T SEEM SERIOUS ABOUT IT AS LONG AS HIS NEEDS ARE MET! NEXT MY SON WATCHES DINO DAN WHILE I MAKE HIS SNACK CATCHING MY SELF BEFORE I SAID COME TO THE TABLE I WALED TO THE DEN AND SHOWED HIM THE FOOD AND SET IT ON THE TABLE SO HE COULD GO SIT DOWN. PROBLEM WAS HE DIDN'T WANT TO STOP WATCHING HIS SHOW AND COME EAT. NOW MENTALLY TICKED OFF I'M TRYING TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO GET THE BOY TO LISTEN(W/O LISTENING TO ME) USUALLY MY MOMMA TONE WORKS TO GET HIM TO COOPERATE BUT I COULDN'T USE THAT SO I ENDED UP GIVING HIM HIS LUNCH ON THE COUCH..LOL! AND YES THERE WAS A MESS!
PART 2:15 MIN SPOKEN LANGUAGE
FINALLY I GOT MY VOICE BACK W/NO EXPRESSION AND GESTURE WHICH I'M TOTALLY USED TO WITH LITTLE ONES IN THE HOUSE! SO I ASK CHACE TO HELP ME CLEAN UP AFTER HIS LUNCH AND HE STANDS THERE WITH THAT CLUELESS TODDLER LOOK (IF YOUR A PARENT YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN) I WANT TO MAKE A STERN FACE AND VOICE AND TELL HIM TO PICK UP HIS MESS BUT I SAY PLEASE HELP MOMMY AND START CLEANING SO HE CAN FOLLOW MY LEAD, DID I MESS UP AND GESTURE SINCE THIS IS SHOWING HIM WHAT TO DO *DARN* SO NOW HE JUMPING UP AND DOWN BECAUSE HE WANTS TO PLAY HIS GAME AND I SAID WAIT UNTIL YOU PUT YOUR DISHES IN THE SINK -IN MY ZOMBIE VOICE AND PERSONALITY- SO I DON'T MESS THIS UP! HE IS NOT TAKING ME SERIOUS-OH GOSH, THIS IS HARDER THAN I THOUGHT I ASSUMED IF HE HEARD COMMANDS IT WOULD BE EASIER THAN JUST NOT SAYING ANYTHING AT ALL BUT HE WAS MORE COOPERATIVE WHEN I DIDN'T SPEAK. THIS KID IS READING ME MORE THAN WHAT I THOUGHT! CHACE DUMPS HIS DISHES IN THE SINK AND I GIVE HIM THE GAME AND HE IGNORES ME TO PLAY ON THE i Pad!
SO I ASK MY SON DO YOU LIKE WHEN MOMMY DOESN'T TALK HE NODS YES. THEN I ASKED DID YOU LIKE IT WHEN MOMMY TALKS TO YOU HE NODS YES AGAIN. AWE, I LOVE HIM, I'M NOT SURE IF HE KNEW WHAT I WAS DOING BUT HE DID REACT TO VERBAL/NON VERBAL, BUT AT LEAST I SAW THE DIFFERENCE. I'M TOO EXPRESSIVE AND IT WAS A STRUGGLE TO LET GO OF THE BODY GESTURES!



